Post by caridwen on Jul 16, 2015 14:17:38 GMT
I'm really confused. (clouds) Spoke to my cousin who was supposed to be collecting the post etc but can't because she's broken her feet. She spoke to this bloke yesterday and he said he'll do the collection because he's round the corner every Saturday doing something and will be in the neighbourhood. I said that I would cover the cost of transport and was told that he might find this insulting. I then explained that I would feel obligated but she said that he doesn't mind.
I am confused because we haven't seen each other in five years, we're not friends and don't keep in contact. I'm confused as to why he'd want to help.
He's not like this. He's not money orientated and is very generous. I see Bouquet perhaps as favour with no other intentions. He's also only round the corner from my place so it won't cost him anything to get there. I did offer to cover the costs but he cycles anyway. I'm worried about the obligation I will feel towards him if he does this.
I'm quite embarrassed and feel awkward. I don't know how he feels.
If he showed up with flowers, I would be very surprised. I've decided not to meet him and to post the keys to him and converse by email. Our relationship is non existent, we haven't communicated in over five years (last time was 2009). He's aware that I don't have much cash and am studying so I'm not sure the money angle is right.
The reason I thought sexual relationship was the ring/snake The snake is moving towards the ring. Or is that just me
I'm not sure about a fling thing. I would expect Whips or Lilies -two more traditional "sex" cards. And Clouds as the reduction card is more about emotions and confusion, meaning he is just as confused as you are.
I am confused because we haven't seen each other in five years, we're not friends and don't keep in contact. I'm confused as to why he'd want to help.
Fish is the money card, and the Ring is cyclical, but I think it shows money changing hands. Bouquet is a gift, with Fish, a monetary offering. There is a chance he will ask for money in return for house-sitting (Ship + Fish = expense involving a trip). He is probably too proud, as a man, to ask for money (which he needs (Fish + Clouds = money problems), so he will be indirect about his wanting to get paid, hence Snake.
He's not like this. He's not money orientated and is very generous. I see Bouquet perhaps as favour with no other intentions. He's also only round the corner from my place so it won't cost him anything to get there. I did offer to cover the costs but he cycles anyway. I'm worried about the obligation I will feel towards him if he does this.
Clouds in the realm of emotion means embarrassment, too.
I'm quite embarrassed and feel awkward. I don't know how he feels.
9 + 25 + 7 + 3 + 34
Bouquet + Fish = gift of money
Ring + Ship = round trip ticket ("Well, you can afford a round trip ticket to blah blah blah, why can't you afford...")
Snake + Bouquet = using a roundabout way to get what one wants (Snake + Fishes, also), quid pro quo (though not sexual)
Bear represents "healthy" and "strong", two adjectives that describe to me what your current relationship seems to be.
It could also mean your ex himself, but this is a positive (it's my significator, too). Bears are sensitive creatures afterall, but we pretend not to be (think 'teddy bear").
There is advice here to handle his feelings about needing money with kid gloves. And don't be surprised when he shows up with flowers! lol
Bouquet + Fish = gift of money
Ring + Ship = round trip ticket ("Well, you can afford a round trip ticket to blah blah blah, why can't you afford...")
Snake + Bouquet = using a roundabout way to get what one wants (Snake + Fishes, also), quid pro quo (though not sexual)
Bear represents "healthy" and "strong", two adjectives that describe to me what your current relationship seems to be.
It could also mean your ex himself, but this is a positive (it's my significator, too). Bears are sensitive creatures afterall, but we pretend not to be (think 'teddy bear").
There is advice here to handle his feelings about needing money with kid gloves. And don't be surprised when he shows up with flowers! lol
If he showed up with flowers, I would be very surprised. I've decided not to meet him and to post the keys to him and converse by email. Our relationship is non existent, we haven't communicated in over five years (last time was 2009). He's aware that I don't have much cash and am studying so I'm not sure the money angle is right.
The reason I thought sexual relationship was the ring/snake The snake is moving towards the ring. Or is that just me